Diane!??? This is not pity, but straightforward direct talk from someone whose been there before too, don't sell yourself so short.
Not everyone is or can be a looker, but speaking as a guy, i would much rather be with someone with a good, deep, and/or interesting personality who is around average looking than with someone who is very physically attractive, but with a negative attitude, who is shallow, mean, immature, etc.
And it doesn't sound like you are as anti social as you make yourself out to be, you just described rather enjoying the company of various people. You're also on a forum. Truly antisocial people don't really like or enjoy people's company period. So, you're a bit introverted, nothing wrong with that.
Course i don't know you at all and vice versa, but being fairly intuitive for a guy i can pick up vibes from people, even over the i-net, and the former is telling me you're selling yourself short!