I like your approach to this topic that many get extremely defensive.
Stoveless is an option, not a mandate.
1) Regarding the morning coffee request, for me, I bring along the chocolate covered expresso coffee beans. It isn't the Cup o' Joe romantic experience, but it's a dry medium to consuming the caffeine, eating your coffee. :)
2) Semantics, it's not really stoveless. I say that and people confuse it with eating raw twigs and green pine cones. I use a stove at home to prep my meals. Basic meal left-overs concept. For most of the 3 day trips, I vacuum seal home-cooked rice/ground beef and beans then freeze the highly perishable foods and consume them first. Leaving the dry goods for last.