What torso size for your buddy? I have a used 2007 Osprey Aether 70 pack, size medium available (torso 18-20). It has female straps and hipbelt but you can buy replacement straps and hipbelt for it. Its a nice emerald green color, great condition. I love the simple design of it (no extra pockets, side access like current model). I'd take $90 shipped for it.
I will have available within the next two weeks a Enlightened Equipment RevX 40F quilt with 30% overstuff available (~35F temp rating). 6' length, wide in red exterior, black interior. Used 8 times, like new condition, stored loose in smoke free home. Will include stuff sack and storage sack. I'd part with it for $175 shipped.