Buy urban clothing for your significant other at REI for such occasions as birthdays, Christmas and Hallmark inspired holidays.
Then use the dividend to purchase stuff like Dr. Bronners, fuel canisters, white gas, denatured alcohol, DEET, AquaMira, batteries, Tikka headlamp at REI.
Your significant other is happy and your get "free" stuff that the significant doesn't know about.
I call this "WDK" money
- wife don't know.