That's too bad. :(
I gave up on finding a refillable for myself years ago. I found that the element in the windproof refillable ones burned out in relatively short order. Dunhill ones leaked. None did well when wet.
Still have the butane fuel bottles to store/dispose of.
A Bic could be more recycle friendly if handled properly.
I do use a fire steel(trendy I know, but really I have been using them for a long time)to light my stove.
A Bic, while not a perfect solution works. It works at altitude better than any refillable I have ever come across. Most won't work above 7500 feet has been my experience.
Matches, especially wooden ones are not as good as they once were. Those UCO Storm matches are overkill for most usage.
So I see Brett's dilemma
Hope you find a solution you can live with. Not easy some times.