...no. Not because everyone is hating on you. More because everyone is using their Notch or SS1 right now in the backcountry. As the owner of an SS1, I can tell you I'll not part with that tent for quite a while. My love for this tent.
is big and I plan to use it as often as I can for the foreseeable future.
You're best off just taking the plunge and purchasing the one that most turns you on. Good luck!