You could chip away at this list and get it a hair below 10#. Your alcohol fuel, for example, is a consumble so doesn't "count" in BW. Light and knife could be much lighter, as the poster above suggested. My Petzl e+lite is 1 oz, plenty of knife choices <1 oz, etc. Also noticed you have three different pairs of gloves, and your kitchen setup seems to have a number of small (although light) components. Ultimately, you might find that fiddly and want to minimize (bandana for pot grabber, self-priming stove, etc).
But I'm not sure the difference between 10.5# and 10# is noticeable, except psychologically. To realize significant weight savings off your current list (which is very nice, BTW), you'll need to change to another sleep and shelter system (quilt, tarp). I use a MYOG shaped tarp (no bivy needed) at 9.7 oz w/ guys, still sub 1# once groundsheet and stakes are included.
At that point, you may find a lighter pack will serve as well. And 7.5# BW definitely feels different than 10.5#.