If you live in the Bay Area, you gotta own it. Cary called it the "Bays-Scaryia" the other day which I thought was pretty clever too.
I am actually G@y and relish what is essentially getting called a "sissy" (or worse) on an online forum. Cracks me up to no extent. Because I love being g@y, and at the end of the day, I'd rather be g@y than some guy who calls other people "sissies" on an online forum--as if it's an insult!
Of course, YMMV. ;)
P.S. G@y should not be censored....but that's been discussed recently.